As parents, we want to create a safe and welcoming environment for our teens and their friends—especially during high-risk times like spring break. Hosting a gathering at home can be a great way to help teens socialize in a safe setting, but it’s important to set clear expectations and create a substance-free environment. 

That’s where Informed Families’ Safe Homes, Smart Parties campaign comes in. This initiative helps parents host responsible, alcohol-free events that allow teens to have fun while staying safe.

Here’s how you can create a safe, alcohol- and drug-free gathering for teens:

1. Set Clear Rules and Expectations

Before the party begins, establish clear guidelines with your teen and their friends. Let them know that alcohol, drugs, and any other risky behavior won’t be tolerated. Have an open conversation with your teen about why these rules are in place—focus on safety and helping them make smart choices.

💡 Tip: You can have your teen help create a "Party Code of Conduct" to set expectations while giving them a sense of ownership over the event.

2. Supervise Without Hovering

Teens are more likely to make good choices when they know adults are nearby. You don’t need to stand over them, but being present and engaged sends a clear message that safety is a priority. Walk through the party area occasionally and make yourself available if anyone needs help.

💡 Tip: Consider inviting other parents to help chaperone. A team approach can make supervision easier and more effective.

3. Offer Engaging and Fun Activities

A party without alcohol doesn’t have to be boring! Plan games, music, and interactive activities that keep teens entertained. Options like karaoke, a movie night, a backyard game tournament, or a creative DIY station can keep the energy up and discourage risky behavior.

💡 Ideas:

• Game night – Board games, card games, or video games
• Outdoor fun – Volleyball, basketball, cornhole, or a scavenger hunt
• Music and dance – Create a playlist or let teens take turns DJing
• DIY snack bar – Let teens customize popcorn, nachos, or mocktails

4. Create a Safe Space for Open Conversations

Teens need to feel comfortable talking to you about peer pressure and risky situations. Encourage open communication before, during, and after the party. Let them know they can come to you if they feel uncomfortable or need help.

💡 Tip: Use positive reinforcement. Praise your teen for hosting a safe party and making responsible decisions.

5. Control the Environment

Make sure the party space is safe and secure. Limit entry points to avoid uninvited guests and keep alcohol and prescription medications locked away. Monitor any bags or backpacks being brought in to prevent anyone from sneaking in substances.

💡 Tip: If someone arrives under the influence or with alcohol or drugs, contact their parents and remove them from the party calmly and without confrontation.

6. Encourage a Safe End to the Night

Make sure everyone gets home safely. Have a clear plan for how teens will get home, whether it’s a designated parent pick-up or rideshare options.

💡 Tip: Consider setting a clear end time for the party to prevent late-night risky behavior.

✅ Why Alcohol-Free Parties Matter

Underage drinking and substance use can have serious consequences for teens, including impaired judgment, risky behavior, and long-term health issues. By hosting alcohol-free gatherings, you’re helping teens make safe choices and teaching them that they can have fun without substances.

By creating a fun, safe, and engaging atmosphere, you’re not just hosting a party—you’re setting an example and helping your teen build responsible habits that will last a lifetime. Through Informed Families’ Safe Homes, Smart Parties campaign, you can empower your teen to make smart decisions and create meaningful social experiences—without the risks of alcohol and drugs.

Learn more about the Safe Homes, Smart Parties campaign at InformedFamilies.org and discover more ways to keep your teen safe and healthy.