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Stress is no stranger to teens. Between academics, social pressures, extracurriculars, and the constant buzz of social media, today’s teens are navigating a world more demanding and digitally connected than ever before. New research shows that when stress goes unmanaged, it can drive risky behaviors—like underage drinking—as teens search for relief.

But here’s the good news: Parents and caregivers can play a powerful role in helping teens manage stress in healthy, lasting ways. By staying connected, informed, and proactive, families can guide teens through tough times—without them turning to that first drink.

The Link Between Teen Stress and Alcohol Use

Recent studies from the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) and the CDC confirm that stress is a major factor in early alcohol use. When teens experience high levels of stress—especially without effective coping tools—they’re more likely to experiment with substances as a way to self-medicate. For some, that “one drink” becomes a risky coping mechanism that opens the door to future misuse.

Key findings:

• 40% of teens say they feel persistently sad or hopeless, according to the CDC’s 2023 Youth Risk Behavior Survey.

• Teens who report chronic stress are twice as likely to try alcohol by age 15.

• Peer pressure, poor sleep, and a lack of coping strategies are key contributors to stress-related drinking.

Why Teens Are More Vulnerable Than Ever

Teen brains are still developing—especially in areas tied to decision-making and impulse control. When stress hormones flood the system, the ability to make smart choices can be compromised. Add in the allure of “quick fixes” like alcohol and it’s clear why stress can be such a trigger.

Modern stressors include:

• Academic pressure and college expectations

• Social media comparison and online bullying

• Family conflict or financial stress at home

• Pandemic aftershocks and global uncertainty

Many teens feel like they can’t unplug, can’t slow down, and can’t escape the pressure. That’s where we come in.

What Parents Can Do (and Say)

You don’t have to be a therapist to help your teen manage stress. But you do have to be involved.

Here’s how:

1. Normalize the Conversation

Create a safe space to talk about stress—without judgment or overreaction. Ask open-ended questions like:

• “What’s been the most stressful part of your week?”

• “When you feel overwhelmed, what helps you calm down?”

Let your teen know it’s okay not to have it all together.

2. Model Healthy Coping

Your teen watches how you handle stress. Practice and model healthy habits like:

• Going for a walk or doing a quick workout

• Journaling or meditating

• Talking to someone you trust

Seeing you manage stress in real-time teaches them how to do it too.

3. Set Clear Boundaries Around Alcohol

Make your expectations clear: underage drinking isn’t allowed. Be direct, but also explain why—because you care about their brain, body, and future.

Tip: Use SAMHSA’s “Talk. They Hear You.” tools for age-appropriate conversation starters.

4. Introduce Modern Stress-Relief Tools

Today’s teens respond well to tech-savvy and practical strategies. A few ideas:

• Apps like Headspace, Calm, or Breathe+ for guided mindfulness

• YouTube yoga/stretching videos for movement breaks

• Screen-free downtime built into their daily schedule

• Music playlists or creative outlets like art, writing, or gaming (in moderation)

Give them options—and let them choose what works best.

Final Thoughts: You’re the Difference

Stress may be inevitable, but substance use doesn’t have to be. By staying engaged, listening with empathy, and giving your teen the right tools, you can reduce their risk of turning to alcohol—and help them build resilience that lasts a lifetime.

Let’s raise strong, self-aware teens who know how to handle stress the healthy way.

Need More Support?
Informed Families offers free resources, toolkits, and family-based programs to help prevent underage drinking and promote healthy coping habits. Visit InformedFamilies.org to explore more.